When spouses are married, they live happily for the first few months or years in their marriage. Because of simple day to day issues or other reasons, the relationship between the spouses eventually begins to experience various problems and obstacles. For instance, communication between them becomes difficult. They become unpleased with each other's reactions and decisions. In order to maintain peace with your spouse after realizing that he or she is in a bad mood, it is better to look for ways of cheering him or her up. It is important to keep peace with a spouse because it helps in creating a serene atmosphere in a home.
Drew (87) asserts that a peaceful marriage prevents stressful situations from becoming a marital conflict. It goes without saying that conflict not only affects the spouses, but their children as well. A peaceful partner is capable of assisting his or her partner to be peaceful and live a happy life. There are various ways of creating peace with a spouse. The reason for making peace is to keep ones' marriage happy, peaceful and adjusted. It also helps to prevent destruction of property due to anger expressed by partner.
To make peace with each other, spouses should focus on the positive things in life. For instance, spouses should be contended with what his or her partner has or can provide rather than expecting too much. It is also imperative to realize the reality that no one is perfect. For this reason, it is not good to expect a partner to be perfect. To respect a partner and discuss the problems that make you stressed or interferes with your marriage helps in making peace between married partners (Drew 90). When annoyed, it is unwise to shout or yell at your partner. Instead, speak to him or her happily as if there is nothing wrong and later express to him or her what annoyed you in an honest way. When your partner spends money in a manner that you think is silly, it is advisable to appreciate the fact that maybe that act made him or her spouse happy.
Being tolerant is another way of making peace. If your partner has habits that worry you, it is important to put up with the situation to avoid clashes. It is also crucial to appreciate everything good that your partner does. It is advisable to celebrate with him his success to make him realize how caring and loving you are to him. Making apologies after infuriating a spouse also enhances peace between spouses. If you do something that annoys your partner, it is wise to apologize and express how sorry you are and promise never to repeat it. Apologizing also reveals that you are able to admit your faults. If your partner bothers you for something you are not certain about, it is appropriate for you to apologize for the misunderstanding in order to avoid arguments (Drew 117).
Moreover, it is bad manners to think that you know your partner more than he or she knows him or herself. It is true that you might know most of his or her secrets but, you may not know all of them. For that reason, they have a right to make their own decisions and speak their minds just like any other person does. When your partner has some information and is eager to share it with you, it is very important to listen to him even though if you feel that what he talks about is meaningless to you. Additionally, it is important to avoid using words or expressions that can disappoint your spouse. It is therefore true that, a true home is one that has happy partners who understand each other.